LOG KYA KAHENGE

 

A MOST COMMON DISEASE OF HUMAN BEING

Today, I would like to make all of you aware of a disease that is found in each and every human being from age of approximately ten to infinity. This disease gets more and more severe as a person starts living a formal life. It’s such a serious one, you can’t even imagine. Many times, people even lose their lives due to this. Once it enters one’s brain, it can cause mental depression followed by weakness and other health disorders. So, what’s it?

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This disease is all about your opinion about how to maintain your reputation in society. So, here’s the time for the name of the illness we are talking about. It’s LKK. I hope you have understood. If still not, then let’s talk more about it.

Answer another question. Before doing or saying something publicly or presenting yourself in front of a big crowd of the audience, what is the first thing that you think about, or what is the first question that you ask yourself?

I can bet 99.99% of you will have the same answer “Log Kya Kahenge.” So, this is what we are going to talk about in the proceeding moments. So friends, the disease as mentioned earlier is Log Kya Kahenge (LKK).

Yes, accept it; it’s there in you, me, and everybody around the globe. I hope you will understand it better as we go through this topic deeper and deeper.

Let’s go through some examples to make it simpler. Suppose, in front of a crowd of five thousand people, I ask you to come upon the stage and give a dance performance. I know you’ll deny it immediately. But, what’s the reason? The first thing that strikes through your mind was your reputation. You thought that I don’t know how to dance well if I don’t perform well, people will laugh at me, I’ll become a laughing stock for all of them, etc.

You’ll think ‘Log Kya Kahenge if I am not able to dance well’ and all these thoughts will finally frame a conclusion in your mind which states just a single word, i.e., denial because you will think that it is the only option left for you. It’s time to study the consequences of the newly discovered disease, ‘LKK.’

Usually, the case is that a person wishes to express his/her talent in front of the whole world, but nervousness and anxiety become the barrier.

Actually, the fright is not yours; it’s of the society and its comments which make you feel anxious before presenting yourself in front of them.

The ideology required to beat this disease is just a four-word phrase, i.e., ‘Let’s face the world.’ This is the antidote to LKK. As said earlier, do what gives you pleasure. Don’t ever think ‘Log Kya Kahenge’ and just give your best. Say to yourself, ‘let people say what they say, I’ll do what I want.’ Remember, in today’s era, no one has the time and energy to see, think and then comment on what you are doing in front of them.

Another consideration of a student thinking about the stream to be chosen in class eleven- she will first think of her own dreams and ambitions in life. Then, she will think about her parent’s opinion about her career. At the same time, she will also think about the streams which her friends are going to choose. Moreover, taking into consideration, the societal views upon this topic which usually says that if a student has got science stream, she must have scored excellent in the previous standard and vice-versa for humanities, she will feel a bit sheepish while sharing her decisions with her family, friends or anybody who asks her about this matter.

In this case, her decision might get altered because of various factors, which she thinks, she would have to face while telling people about her conclusion on this theme.

So, what finally happened is just the building of stress and overthinking which at last creates anonymous pressure on one’s mind and leaves it thoughtless

Now is the time for another common factor which a boy has to face in society. Friends, all of us have emotions and we need to express them.

Let’s consider the case of a student of class 8. If it is a girl and she cries, she will get sympathy & love from all the people around her. But, if it is a boy, he will not have sympathized with anyone. Moreover, he will become a standing joke for the crowd. Everyone will say, ‘just see him, he is such a grown-up child, but still, he cries, he has no shame at all, he cries like a girl, he does not have characteristics of a boy, he behaves like a girl, cries on pity things, etc.’ This is something very common. Don’t think it to be something new and odd. I myself have seen it several times. But, believe me; this can have very bad effects in the future. This depression gets collected in the boy’s brain and it later comes out in the form of domestic violence.      

More Examples?

Express your talent. Once or twice you may be wrong, but at some point, you will succeed and that moment will be the happiest one for you. Even if you know that a particular phase is your weakness like I have stage fear. So, don’t be afraid of it. Face it. Do it again and again until you get yourself polished. Don’t think that you are weak and the others are strong. Remember, no one is perfect. Even the ones who are judging you are not perfect.

We have got one life. So enjoy it. Leave behind all the societal pressures, just express what you feel and life will make you feel happy. Don’t be shy about saying anything or doing anything.  If you feel like saying something to anyone, just say it.  If you want to do something, do it. Make your own roads to walk on, your own libraries to read, and your own cultures to be followed; don’t be a follower, be a leader. Be a light of motivation for all. Before doing something, don’t think ‘Log Kya Kahenge’, because sometimes the public opinion changes from the time of processing to the time of finalization. People will deny you ideologies while you are working upon them but, that should never lower your self-confidence. People, at some point, will try to crush you down and will do great efforts in making you realize that you are wrong. But, remember, you are right and no one can beat you.

So, never ever in your life think, "LOG KYA KAHENGE”